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JAKARTA (voa-islam.com) – Parents in whole world likes to see big honesty in their kids. Honesty is one of best character that human should have, especially kids. If the parents teach how to learn it for their kids at the youngest age, later the they  will be able to always be honest when they grow up.
There are many theories that give instructions about how to teach our kids to be honest. But on the reality, it is not easy to run that theory to be true, because there are so many reasons that make kids lie to their parents. Childrentparenting describes 3 factors dealing with that, as follows :

1. Lying as the describtion of their fantasy
"Mom, I can be a superman". Many kids usually say this in their games. This thing is usually happened to the kids at the youngest age. They are easily to be influenced whit anything that they heard and see. As a result, kids have difficulties in distinguist the real thing and the imagination one.  Playing something that involve an imagination is permitted. But parents should explain to their kids that game is unreal.

2. Lying to avoid a mistake.
Almost every kids will say untruth if they are in pressures. They will try to shift their mistakes. On the youngest age, kids usually use their natural imaginations to lie. Next, when they are grow up, they will try to make powerfull stories to avoid any punishments.

.. Kids will say untruth if they are in pressure. They will try to shift their mistakes...

Their emosion include guilty, worry and scare are involve here. They can even say "The cat break this vase, not me" to prove that they are not make any mistakes.

3. Willpower to lie
Lying is bad habit, especially for kids. If the parents do not handle it seriously soon, it can be worse. Parents has to be familiar with the first non- verbal signal of lying, showed by their kids. For example, "Mom, I will go to Alex’s house to learn together with my friends", where as they just want to play around.

The best approach
If your kids usually lie to you, do the best approach to give them any understanding about it. Give simple explanation that their acts are abselutely bad.  Do it smoothly and give many positif words on it.

Do not for get to give your kids any punishments as the consequences of lying. You can give it equal with how big the mistakes are. One thing that parents should remeber, do not get angry or shout a loud to the kids, so they realize that lying is definetily bad for them.